Bisexual Dating Advice on How to Date Bisexual Women

This is how to date a bisexual woman. When a guy first discovers that his lady is bisexual, it’s usually met with great fervor and excitement and shouting from the rooftops. He can’t believe his luck. All of his fantasies are going to come true, and all that jazz.

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By Maya Jordan, MSW

This is Maya Jordan for top10adultdatingsites.com. This is how to date a bisexual woman. When a guy first discovers that his lady is bisexual, it’s usually met with great fervor and excitement and shouting from the rooftops. He can’t believe his luck. All of his fantasies are going to come true, and all that jazz.

Let me just tell you from the get go, that’s just the wrong approach to take. You want to – just speaking from my personal experience as someone who is bisexual and is a woman. You want to play it really cool, and you want to appear like you’re pretty open-minded. There are a number of real common pitfalls that I can coach on how to avoid. Those basically boil down to a couple of real distinct things.

The first one is earnestness. So you want to hold back on appearing overly eager. You don’t want to be like a puppy nipping at her ankles. Just like trying to get a little piece of her. You’re so excited and so overjoyed at the whole idea of being with someone who’s bisexual and all your fantasies coming true that you might appear to be like you’re a little lapdog. We don’t want to do that. You’re a man, right? You’re a man, so man up.

The next tip I would advise you to do, do not share your porn collection with her. Don’t get on the Internet and show her your favorite porn hub, lesbian style videos. That just sucks. It sucks, and I’ll tell you why. Unless she is a total porn enthusiast and she tells you upfront, “You know I really, really, really like porn. It really turns me on.” Just don’t go there. I mean she’s with you for a very distinct reason, and that’s because you bring the cock. Right? In bringing in the cock, that’s why she wants you. Otherwise, she’d be with a woman. Right? Yes.

Another big downfall for a lot of guys is saying that they eat pussy better than a woman. You don’t want to go there, saying you eat pussy better than a woman because this one it makes me laugh until I cry usually. Because as a woman, we have all the bits and pieces that another woman has. In being familiar with our bits and pieces, we can be familiar with her bits and pieces. That familiarity just brings all kinds of good things with it, all kinds of foresight and well … just general aptitude, I would say more than anything.

The next pitfall, bisexual dating does not mean that you got a threesome in your future. So just kind of erase that from your mind. Get that out of your head because she is bisexual, but that doesn’t mean that she’s polyamorous, which is when you get involved with other people in addition to your spouse or your partner. It doesn’t mean that. So try to keep it in the present day, and relating to her as a human being, as a single human being, and you as a single human being, and not involving a third party unless she volunteers that.

Another big pitfall for a lot of guys is gossiping, and it cracks me up to hear these guys gossip the way that women do. It’s just as prevalent I think among guys as it is amongst women. I will say that if you can show yourself and capable of keeping her secret – because it is her secret unless she decides to share it with other people. If you can demonstrate that you’re capable of that, that implies that you are deserving of her affection and attention because you can keep your fucking mouth shut. It’s a great thing.

Bisexual dating does not necessarily equate with indiscriminate either. So indiscriminate means that you’re going to sleep with anything that moves. Dating bisexual women doesn’t mean that you’re going to sleep with anything that moves as a woman. I mean I get that a lot of people assume that just because you say that you’re bisexual it means you get twice as many dates. That’s just not the case because everybody’s got a type, right? Everybody’s got a type that they like. I’ve got a type of woman that I like, and I’ve got a type of man that I like. I want to go for one particular woman, and I’m going to go for one particular man. That’s just the way that it is.

And then, the last pitfall that I can just tell you to avoid like the plague is to regale her with stories of your bi-girlfriend from college because your bi-girlfriend from college is not the same as your present day girlfriend. It’s just not. Your bi-girlfriend from college was experimenting, and probably went on to partner with a man, and have lots of children, and be a nurse or something. Your present day girlfriend is sophisticated, and knows what she wants, and has explored many identities, and has settled on bisexual as her label. So she’s investigated. She knows what it’s all about. So don’t assume that just because she’s bisexual, it means that she’s still experimenting.

So those are the pitfalls to avoid when you’re dating a bisexual female on the bisexual dating scene. This has been Maya Jordan with top10adultdatingsites.com. Stay tuned for more audios to come.

If you’re looking to enhance your sex, dating, or relationships Maya Jordan offers personal coaching, webinars, and workshops at a reasonable cost.  Feel free to contact Maya at Maya@mayajordan.com for more information.

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